Pleasure is the point. Feeling good is not frivolous, it is freedom.
— Adrienne Maree brown

I’m Ray.

I’m a queer, non-binary, polyamorous, autistic person that doesn’t separate my ‘personal’ and ‘professional’ worlds, because any work I do is aligned with who I am, and anything about my experiences in the world shapes my work. So if you find something here that you weren’t expecting I hope you enjoy it.

I’m a facilitator, community organiser and death doula that centres liberation in all my work.

If you want to work with me you can email ray@and-breathe.org

If you want to support me with other unpaid endeavours such as writing you can buy me a coffee.

Image of me by @before.sunset.studio