https://raythespirit.com/home daily 0.75 2019-04-16 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/1538938674776-IHV0027L380481O9U0JT/color-3.png Home https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/1538830400039-QBI37G3VOX2CI37T44AJ/DjnXPO1WwAEc1I9.jpg Home https://raythespirit.com/blog daily 0.75 2026-04-26 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2026/4/26/why-i-write monthly 0.5 2026-05-05 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2026/4/17/from-partnership-to-collective monthly 0.5 2026-04-21 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2026/3/12/planting-seeds-quietly-collaborative-idea-generation monthly 0.5 2026-03-12 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2026/3/12/relationships-before-ideas-preparing-the-ground-we-will-grow-from monthly 0.5 2026-03-12 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2026/2/19/the-magic-of-community-building monthly 0.5 2026-02-25 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/e66e882d-aac8-4b29-975f-f3408da08f68/34879de9-dec6-478a-b235-7d698eeac05f_1024x768.webp Blog - The 'magic' of community building - Make it stand out A diagram titled “The foundations for a vibrant and equitable community”. It has three core principles at the centre - Culture, commitment and value - and questions such as “What energy do people show up with?” and “How and why are relationships sustained” https://raythespirit.com/blog/2026/2/16/love-amp-solidarity-at-radical-routes monthly 0.5 2026-02-16 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/b14b1b11-071f-4b65-991c-a3f3e5cb2f6b/unnamed+%282%29.jpg Blog - Love & solidarity at Radical Routes - Make it stand out The giant cookie my kid made with the Kids group at Radical Routes Gathering https://raythespirit.com/blog/2026/1/3/what-do-i-get-paidnbsp monthly 0.5 2026-01-09 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2025/12/8/financing-freedom-how-we-funded-our-co-op monthly 0.5 2025-12-08 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/e428ae57-dc7c-40a9-89fe-ef762606efea/WQCC_86.jpg Blog - Financing freedom: how we funded our co-op - Make it stand out A queer care collective session at the co-operative exploring different forms of mutual aid and support https://raythespirit.com/blog/2025/8/28/moving-at-the-speed-of-love monthly 0.5 2025-09-01 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/1756470235112-L66SGP7IC3534VBXBADF/IMG_20250529_191417.jpg Blog - Moving at the speed of love https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/1756470241061-OZ7TUH3YBBF7CR8B9VPC/IMG_20250531_184624.jpg Blog - Moving at the speed of love https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/1756470433535-O5861VBO6WQCVSZ2QT5O/IMG_20250613_150755.jpg Blog - Moving at the speed of love https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/1756470241549-96SYEBFU9O89NVESB2HK/IMG_20250607_155039.jpg Blog - Moving at the speed of love https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/1756470427402-ECPDC00Q495X0QZKX0OZ/IMG_20250727_084844.jpg Blog - Moving at the speed of love https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/1756470246113-WF3CVYJSHF4L5YQ3PDRG/IMG_20250719_135520.jpg Blog - Moving at the speed of love https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/1756470246031-V92OPU7UDZRJMAI2CPQB/IMG_20250719_173913.jpg Blog - Moving at the speed of love https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/1756470249142-H55CSPPRZQW18EGPDPUI/IMG_20250812_210434.jpg Blog - Moving at the speed of love https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/1756470438361-02N5VM23HW1ABUWWSIRG/IMG_20250720_180119.jpg Blog - Moving at the speed of love https://raythespirit.com/blog/2025/7/14/sense-making-with-shapes monthly 0.5 2025-07-22 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/936fa58b-1b4d-469b-9674-5fd3b96b7499/PXL_20230719_085237945.jpg Blog - Sense-making with shapes - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/6831f1e3-1fc9-4480-94a1-8c9d9c2bf545/IMG_20240521_125552.jpg Blog - Sense-making with shapes - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://raythespirit.com/blog/2025/6/5/the-most-liberating-liberating-structure monthly 0.5 2025-06-05 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2025/5/28/if-you-stand-for-justice-you-cannot-be-above-it monthly 0.5 2025-05-29 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2025/5/2/a-grave-with-no-name monthly 0.5 2025-05-02 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/2972f142-5762-424a-b537-5e8398eeccef/IMG_20250430_190815+%281%29.jpg Blog - A grave with no name - Make it stand out The grave I sat on. Later that day a young girl was climbing on it, making daisy chains and playing with the spiders she found underneath it. Let’s hope she’s not shamed for exploring so beautifully and joyfully. https://raythespirit.com/blog/2025/4/20/finding-simple-sanctuaries monthly 0.5 2025-04-20 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/3091f971-4f7d-443b-8efe-15370db6780d/3F04204F-FDBF-4CF3-896C-262395874971.jpeg Blog - Finding simple sanctuaries - Make it stand out The bird feeder in my partners bedroom https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/024aa4b7-9935-4255-857c-1e2d084c6fca/58DF1DF7-22B4-44AA-9EFD-6F19E919128A.jpeg Blog - Finding simple sanctuaries - Make it stand out Seedlings at Skylark housing co-op https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/ade073f8-c2a9-4572-9ea9-d9b428ea099c/E6240557-B37D-4E83-9167-1D91E62707AB.jpeg Blog - Finding simple sanctuaries - Make it stand out My friend doing a tea ceremony https://raythespirit.com/blog/2025/3/18/relationship-anarchy-and-transformational-governance monthly 0.5 2026-01-16 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2025/1/29/breaking-up-with-social-media monthly 0.5 2025-01-29 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2025/1/23/doing-community-research-when-the-system-doesnt-want-to-hear-the-answer monthly 0.5 2025-01-23 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2024/10/19/acts-of-love monthly 0.5 2024-10-21 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2024/10/11/understanding-autistic-burn-out monthly 0.5 2024-10-11 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2024/3/17/when-life-is-hard-work-the-problem-with-economic-inactivity monthly 0.5 2024-11-26 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2024/3/17/how-to-make-sexting-inclusive-including-asexual-people monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/66b38e2d-27bb-43cc-8d10-0ea28b5c811d/Screenshot+2024-03-17+at+19.38.21.jpg Blog - How to make sexting inclusive (including asexual people!) - Make it stand out Relatively vanilla example from early on in a game https://raythespirit.com/blog/2023/12/12/understanding-autistic-meltdowns monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2023/11/8/travelling-through-time monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2023/11/3/loving-as-world-building monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2023/9/29/are-stability-and-relationship-anarchy-incompatible monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2023/8/29/5ohl04tih9bh0mh2msumxwlodvtg43 monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2023/8/20/food-pleasure monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/405dc59b-f88e-4a9d-aba4-3dda4edb5279/PXL_20230812_173054694.jpg Blog - Finding deep pleasure in food could transform our society - Make it stand out My favourite healthy comfort food sourced from Pingle Farm and Tofurei - tofu, brocolli, greens, soy, ginger & garlic https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/45057ab9-4bc1-42dd-99f5-fb2e291d3168/%26Breathe+%28Screen%29-111.jpg Blog - Finding deep pleasure in food could transform our society - Make it stand out Me dishing up dinner for friends at a recent &Breathe gathering https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b7032b5506fbe88e594c7b7/d593ef1e-2e2b-4edb-9600-096d8217b9a1/IMG20230816104027.jpg Blog - Finding deep pleasure in food could transform our society - Make it stand out My kids picking beans at Pingle Farm https://raythespirit.com/blog/2023/5/19/the-joy-of-feeling-entirely-myself-at-a-play-party monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2023/3/10/the-beautifully-complex-emotions-of-polyamory monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2023/3/3/presence-relief-and-symbiosis-the-endless-possibilities-of-sex monthly 0.5 2023-03-03 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2022/11/21/your-dick-or-mine monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2023/1/1/the-gifts-that-polyamory-gave-me-in-2022 monthly 0.5 2023-01-01 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2022/12/24/seeing-energy-and-the-things-unsaid monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2022/11/21/7-things-ive-done-this-week-that-you-might-not-associate-with-autism monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2022/10/14/when-love-becomes-a-world-of-endless-possibility monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2022/8/15/1d5otefpkdjyenfh7pg9gj7th24326 monthly 0.5 2022-08-15 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2022/8/12/being-polyamorous-in-principle-could-unlock-a-lot-more-pleasure monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2022/8/8/9-questions-to-improve-your-sexual-experiences-part-1-xdp6f monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/2022/8/8/9-questions-to-improve-your-sexual-experiences-part-1 monthly 0.5 2024-07-31 https://raythespirit.com/blog/category/cohousing monthly 0.5 https://raythespirit.com/blog/category/other monthly 0.5 https://raythespirit.com/blog/category/disability+justice monthly 0.5 https://raythespirit.com/blog/category/economy monthly 0.5 https://raythespirit.com/blog/category/philosophy monthly 0.5 https://raythespirit.com/blog/category/sex+%26+relationships monthly 0.5 https://raythespirit.com/new-events daily 0.75 2025-09-17 https://raythespirit.com/new-events/2025/11/2/death-cafe-dia-de-los-muertos monthly 0.5 2025-09-17 https://raythespirit.com/new-events/2025/12/20/death-cafe-winter-solstice monthly 0.5 2025-09-17 https://raythespirit.com/new-events/2025/6/7/death-cafe-living-like-were-dying-59z3j monthly 0.5 2025-09-17 https://raythespirit.com/new-events/2025/7/2/exploring-power-and-positionality monthly 0.5 2025-06-17 https://raythespirit.com/new-events/2025/6/5/online-death-cafe-rewriting-the-narrative monthly 0.5 2025-05-21 https://raythespirit.com/new-events/2025/6/7/death-cafe-living-like-were-dying monthly 0.5 2025-05-06 https://raythespirit.com/new-events/2025/3/26/unravelling-monogamy monthly 0.5 2025-01-29 https://raythespirit.com/new-events/2025/4/5/death-cafe-in-person monthly 0.5 2025-03-31 https://raythespirit.com/new-events/2025/2/23/death-cafe-online monthly 0.5 2025-01-29 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing daily 0.75 2026-02-20 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/2026/2/20/on-intercultural-competency monthly 0.5 2026-02-20 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/2026/2/19/on-co-facilitation monthly 0.5 2026-02-19 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/2026/2/10/on-holding-space-for-neurodivergent-minds monthly 0.5 2026-02-11 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/2026/1/15/on-embodying-change-and-abolition monthly 0.5 2026-01-26 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/2025/12/8/on-mutuality-collective-care-amp-creative-practice monthly 0.5 2025-12-08 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/2025/11/6/on-navigating-safety-and-comfort monthly 0.5 2026-01-26 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/2025/10/15/oops-ouch-woah monthly 0.5 2025-10-23 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/2025/10/15/on-the-autistic-experience-of-consent-based-decision-making monthly 0.5 2025-10-23 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/2025/10/14/on-authenticity-and-accountability monthly 0.5 2025-10-23 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/2025/10/15/facilitation-is-fundamental monthly 0.5 2025-10-23 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/category/holding+space+letters monthly 0.5 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/tag/repair monthly 0.5 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/tag/decision+making monthly 0.5 https://raythespirit.com/holding-space-writing/tag/conflict monthly 0.5